le coup de foudre - The Lightning Bolt

(The odds of being hit by le coup de foudre are small, but at least it's not the only way to find true love)

We live in a world of instant gratification and that often means we end up being less satisfied.

Fast food doesn't compare to a meal that took hours to prepare.

Ready-to-wear clothes never fit as well as those that are hand tailored.

So just because a relationship takes some work on the parts of both people to  come together, it doesn't mean that it is filled with any less passion than one that sparked at a first glance.

In the long run, it may actually provide a lot more heat than a relationship that starts off quickly but then peters out just as fast as it began.

ℒℴѵℯ that detonates like an exploding star

can disappear into the cosmos just as quickly.

Love that grows slowly may never burn 

quite as brightly as a supernova,

but it may deliver more energy over the long run.

Remember:It only takes a little spark 

to start a raging forest fire.

->from the book of Dr. Westheimer --"52 Lessons on Communicating Love"

Foolish You

You fooled me once

You fooled me twice

But you can never

Fooled me thrice

It's over and done

So let it be

You can never hold me

For it was our destiny

I loved you once

I loved you twice

But I can't love you

For the third time

Now the feeling's gone

I don't owe you one

Don't make a m0ve

Cause its useless now

Deception

I felt so hopeless for a moment

Sick and reluctant in wilderness

Captured in delight of a stranger felon

Troubled and deceived by his act of kindness

One moment of silence

He was calling my name

And when I glanced

He was dead and gone

Loving From a Distance

I have loved you for so long

Yet my heart can not speak

Tongue tied and coward

Over those years

To remain silent

Was my only ch0ice

For I believe, someday

I would win your heart back

Showing no m0tive

Was a plain excuse

To keep you forever

Even if it hurts so good

I've been trying to tell you

What my heart desires

But I fall apart

Even before I start

The Reader

A movie that is beyond your imagination..Truly inspiring and challenging.."It is an excellent work of art"--a story of deeper understanding of one's self--of reasoning and a different kind of love..It is a film that awakens the need of education, literacy.  Giving us a more sensitive and provocative observation about the characters  gestures..Knowing the idea of a person's judgment based on what they have witnessed. 0nly those wh0 knew can understand what is to be underst0od..Another film that really m0ved my heart...

I've seen this film a couple of times but it definitely makes my cry. What a lovely story after all…Every time I watch this movie, I always put myself in the sh0es of the character so I can feel the emotions that was kept inside. Too much of its mixed bottled emotions makes my tears fall rapidly..

I pity her (Kate Winslet) for being an illiterate and coward but I admire her for being strong and persistent. Achieving something that she desirably wants to have is the greatest deed she have done--Learning the ABC and read on her own. Though it was too late for her to learn all those things, at least she have tried hard enough before she died.

Lesson:

Being illiterate must be understood by the crowd and share to them the knowledge that we have. We don't have to laugh at their ass but instead we have to help them to have a normal life. Literacy is also not an excuse to live a happy life. If you want to have a successful life continue to dream big and achieve that dream. Don't be a coward and be strong to surpass every challenges in your life. 

Passing by

Thought of you

Slip on my mind

Can't rec0gnize

H0w you capture mine

Undying love

Is what you ask

Forbidden

Imp0ssible task

The Irony of Love

Have you ever been swept away by someone wh0m you thought is the ONE? Maybe YES or maybe NO...Whatever your answer is, I can definitely tell that once in your life you've fallen for someone so deep yet your mind is too blind to admit..Am I right?..The probability is high 'coz we love unconditionally and follow what our heart dictates…

But the more painful part is when you love someone who doesn't love you back..Isn't it stupid? YES, it is indeed stupid. That stupidity will lead us  to a disease called  martyr-complex syndrome, loving a person even if it hurts so much. Though it's hard to get away with it, we have to. Sometimes we need to think of ourselves --our own happiness...

Falling for someone who doesn't pay you back in return is another  way of finding true love..Do you agree? I don't agree but for some it is. Others say "The more it hurts, the more you love"…Yeah it is definitely love if it affects you, torn you and kill you. But seeing the one you love, loving another woman/man is not a good reason to hold on to. We have to let go of that person and set him/her free 'coz it's the right  thing to do. It's better to reminisce that moment that sometime in your life you find the ONE but eventually you let go of him/her. At least you've given your best to love him/her even if you get less in return…What matters most is that you have loved unconditionally...

It drives me crazy when I'm in love and it kills me after the excitement was g0ne. It feels like I'm underneath the earth, helpless and empty yet after a decade I'm on a hunting game again searching for an0ther beast to tame and take me d0wn when he finds an0ther mate..Silly as it can be but that's the reality. I guess it was not love at all--It was only an INFATUATION...